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My we've been quiet!

Hi all! I disappeared for a while as life has been happening too fast for me. I had a lot of goals about how I wanted to feel, spend my time, and goals I wanted to work on. It turned out that in order for me to have a healthy life, I'm having to make a couple of huge changes.

Lets see:

I was hoping that I could save up money for a new car. Well my other car blew its engine twice, then I decided I could afford a new car (after waiting 9 weeks to have it fixed) um yeah. The old car never was right again.

Job rearranged itself and I am either moving to CA or looking for a new job. Woah.

My marriage is over. My husband cannot be trusted as he is so deppressed and desperate and acting erratic. I catch him in lies and he makes promises and then doesn't follow through. He's being codependent and I just can't cope with him, or pay for his expenses any longer.

So, in order to show myself that I really care about me, I'm doing what's best for both of us and making him deal with his own consequences and responsibilities. Time for me to move on. After I wrap that up, then I'll be able to continue my art and financial goals.


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Apr. 19th, 2007 07:46 pm (UTC)
Thank you for updating! I've been thinking about you A LOT - you've been going through some very serious changes. CA is such a big move - are you ready for something like that with everything else going on? Or do you think finding a different job will be more likely??
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Apr. 20th, 2007 12:02 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I added you to my fl when I made the switch.

Fresh starts are always good, particularly when you're looking at that kind of percentage.
May. 11th, 2007 11:38 pm (UTC)
actually I interviewed a couple of weeks ago and found out it started at what would be a 60% paycut! Yow. Yeah, that made me want to stick out my job quite a bit.
May. 12th, 2007 11:36 am (UTC)
Holy cow! I don't blame you - I would've made the same decision. :/
Apr. 23rd, 2007 04:55 am (UTC)
Have mercy! This is a lot of major life changes at once. I wish you good luck and lots of patience, courage and perseverance is dealing with all of it.
Apr. 26th, 2007 03:16 pm (UTC)
good luck with everything!
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